Hello lovely people,
In case you haven't noticed, I have added a countdown clock to the bottom of my page to countdown to my next and maybe last relaxer. What!!! Did you say
last relaxer? Yes!! I did! This idea is still in the beginning stages of thought. I have thought about going natural for a long while now to go along with my stance on taking care of my body and lessening my dependence on chemicals. However, there is a lot of things that stand in my way that are blocking my way to this road. For one is my husband, he absolutely hates the idea that I want to go natural. He has his own personal feelings about it and thinks that it will look unprofessional. I personally disagree and think that he is just hung up on what people will think about the subliminal statement that I would be making by making this leap. As for me, the thing that is holding me back from initiating this process is the fact that I don't like to comb my hair a lot. I hate doing styles to my hair that require a lot of work. Hence, if you watch my youtube channel, you have probably noticed this as well. I am all about low key hair care and low manipulation styles. So right now, the debate continues. On one hand I have to respect my husband's opinion and on the other hand I have to do what feels right for me.
What have I decided to do about it?
Well, I am going to go ahead and relax in January because my B-Day is coming up and I will take the process day by day from there. If I continue to fill the urge to go natural I will. My hubbie probably won't even notice it I keep my hair pinned up lol. If I give in and go natural, I am definitely not big chopping until my hair reaches a certain length. Soooooo......I will keep you guys posted. Sigh...